The world is filled with difficult people. It is impossible to avoid them. (You may have one, in particular, in your life right now.) In dealing with such people, we often try a number of coping strategies. Unfortunately, our best attempts at making peace often fail. This is because the difficult people in our lives are often what the Bible calls "fools." And dealing with fools requires a special kind of biblical wisdom. Why not test your own relational intelligence by taking the following little quiz? Answer yes or no to the following questions...
Do you feel the difficult person in your life is displeased with you most of the time?
Do you feel responsible for "clearing things up" with your difficult person?
Are you surprised when your difficult person is upset with you or with a particular circumstance that involves you?
Does the upset often come "out of the blue?"
Do you spend time devising remedies to make your difficult person happier?
Do you believe that he or she is really a good person who is just "difficult to get along with" sometimes?
When you feel your difficult person's anger, do you change the way you behave?
Do you try to appease his or her anger?
Do you argue with him or her?
Does your difficult person define your life? Do you see yourself as the person they think you are?
Do they tell what you should think about things in general and about yourself in particular?
Do you ever think, This isn't so bad ?
Do you ever think, If I were different, he or she would change ?
If you answered yes to as many as five of these questions, then its possible you haven't seen the other person for who he or she really is, and you may not realize where such a relationship inevitably leads. You've tried everything–from confrontation to passivity. You've found out what doesn't work; now discover what does. In this book, Fool~Proofing Your Life you will gain the tools you need to get along with others and conduct your relationships in a manner that honors God–and preserves your sanity! Discover what proverbs says about how to deal effectively with the impossible people in your life!
No. of Pages: 228
ISBN: 0307458482
ISBN -13: 978030745848
Author: Silvious, Jan
Cover Type: Paperback
Dimensions: 5.25"x8"